How to Start a “Charmed” Tradition for Your Family: 3 Easy Steps
Posted by diamondjim on Monday, 13 July, 2009 @ 4:09 pm
A sense of family history is important. Some families have a great-grandmother’s engagement ring, a silver tea set a grandad’s brother found at an estate auction or a plastic chip and dip set in the shape of platypus your mother received as a wedding gift. Perhaps your family isn’t blessed with the cherished objects or those that might even become a running joke generation after generation You don’t have to fight through the spider webs in your dad’s cellar trying to find something worth eventually passing along to your children, grandchildren and so on through the future generations. Rather, initiate your own family tradition today by collecting Italian Charms for your children.
These charms, personally assembled by you into an Italian charm bracelet are much sturdier than fragile old china and can become a much more interesting conversation piece. Rather, the great thing about Italian Charms is that they create a dynamic tradition: each generation can add new links to the charm bracelet to reflect their own life and interests, which keeps the tradition significant, meaningful, and alive.
So how do you begin? Read on for three easy steps to follow on your way towards a new valuable family tradition:
1) Begin by purchasing a starter bracelet.
You can start your tradition inexpensively with starter bracelets. Starter bracelets are often simple, 14 link bracelets with links that are easy to link and unlink. Since the starter bracelets are made of a series of plain, individual charms, each carefully selected charm that you add will become a point of contrast and interest in the changing, overall design. This is a valuable way of going about creating an Italian Charm collection because you want to be patient and collect your charms over many years, not all at once.
2) Purchase personal charms over time as they correspond to events in your children’s lives.
On the occasion of your children’s births, purchase charms with their birthstones, their names, or the year or place of their birth. From then on, notice what the children enjoy, their favorite toys or, as they grow older, the sports or hobbies. Choose an Italian charm that represents each of those interests, accomplishments and milestones.
3) Give the charm bracelets to your children.
This may be the hardest step! After years of collecting and caring for the Italian Charms, you might grown somewhat attached to them. But for the tradition to continue and grow, you must pass the bracelets on. Select an occasion that is momentous, a transitional moment in the life of the bracelet’s recipient. Find a time just before a wedding or after a graduation celebration when you can have some quality, unrushed time together. Explain to them the significance of each of the charms, and how and why you selected them as you did. Demonstrate how and where they might add on to their charm bracelets to keep the tradition alive, and how, one day, you hope that they will pass their charm bracelets on to their children (after having added charms that reflect the important events in their own children’s lives, of course).
Don’t search the attic or cellar for something that you hope might have some meaning to future generations. Instead create something that will inherently serve that purpose of providing a continuing family tradition.
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